Many transgender people put a lot of energy, time and emotion to choose a new name, which should be respected. Using any name other than the one they recognize is harmful. We should all prevent that.
The gender history and experience of a transgender person is complicated and even heart-breaking to talk about. Therefore, when you are talking to a transgender person, try not to focus on satisfying your curiosity. Concentrate on the subject of your meeting.
Try to control your curiosity. Curiosity is a normal feeling, but you should not be controlled by it. This is also one of the reasons why many transgender people are disrespected. Even though you are interested in one’s gender, body structure and mind, please do know that they are not obligated to feed your curiosity and you don’t have the right to dig the information from them, just like you don’t have to explain your past and neither do they.
When you meet most people, you might not ask questions about their genitals or the medical treatment for them. This healthy information is completely personal and private. Do not deprive of their privacy rights. If you want to know more about their experiences, you can do some research by yourself and see what choices are there for people who recognize themselves as transgender or non-binaries. But do not ask a specific transgender person, unless you are allowed.
Pay attention to gender inclusive languages. Gender inclusiveness means to hole an open attitude for all gender identification. For example, we might read an article says “women”, while it actually means people who can bear a child. For transgender men, having period and the ability to be pregnant are still very realistic problems. If you simply say “women”, what about those people who recognize as transgender men, the so called "shemales", while still have uterus and other features related.
Do not use words such as “real women”, “regular women” or “normal women” to compare transgender women with cisgender women. There is no difference between these people. If you use these words, it means you still don’t accept and recognize their identity.
Think twice before you make a move. Remember, you are talking about a human-being. Before you open your mouth, think about which details are not necessary, weaken humanization or words that might make people feel uncomfortable. For example, you must admit that he/she is a human. Calling them transgender is a behavior of disavowal of their human rights. They are human first. Being a transgender is only a part of their identity. Call them transgender people is better than calling them transgender. Also, even if someone accept certain words, that does not mean all of them also accept it. You cannot make random assumptions. Here is the best transgender hookup app.